Sunday, October 22, 2006

Lovely vs. Attractive.

Ladieeeeeeeeeees and Gentlemen... We are now ready for our main event of the evening... In this corner, standing 5'11" and weighing in at a buck o' five, we have Miss Lovely. Annnnnnd in this corner, standing at 5'8" and weighing in at between 120 and 160 pounds... Miss Attractive! Let's get it on!!!

Ok... so maybe there isn't really such a match on the schedule, but it goes on every day. At least in my mind. You see...

To me, there is quite a difference between a girl who's lovely and one that's attractive. For some reason, not all gorgeous girls are attractive to me, and on the flip side of that coin, sometimes attractive women aren't always gorgeous. It's always been a peculiar thing to me. Sometimes though, I hit the jackpot and the attractive ones are also lovely.

Being a curious sort, I always wondered what the common factor was, and for the longest time I couldn't come up with any connection. Then... after I was introduced to the Kabalarian Philosophy, I started to crunch the numbers of the women that I found (and find) most attractive. Almost without fail, they all come out to the same number. It's quite bizarre actually, but there it is.

So here the other night, I'm watching Dr. Who, and the featured guest star struck me immediately. Of course, she was quite lovely, and I found her very attractive. She captivated me immediately, and is one of very few women that I think looks good with her hair up. Anyway... at the end of the show I caught her name. Guess what...

Ayup. She came up to the same number. :eek:


Today's Mystery Lyric:

Fingertips have memories,
I can't forget the curves of your body
And when I feel a bit naughty
I run it up the flagpole and see who salutes
(But no one ever does)


Blogger fermicat said...

Hmm. The numbers game sounds kind of like how I never quite get along with Taurus women, but get along great with Taurus men. I'm a Gemini, if that makes any difference. ;-) But, you know, it's supposed to make a difference where all the other planets are also. A lot of mine are in air signs. :shrug:

What about the people who don't seem attractive when you first see them, but get more attractive to you over time? This has happened to me a lot. And also the opposite - someone looks like a dream, until you find out they are not a nice person, then they don't seem attractive anymore. Do their names have anything to do with the ultimate way things shake out?

10/22/2006 10:43 PM  
Blogger LL said...

I'm afraid that's too broad a question for me to answer. I'm not that well versed in all things Kabalarian. Just enough to be scary. :P

I think what you're talking about is more along the lines of appearance vs personality. Your initial impression of anyone is fairly superficial, because all you really know of them is how they appear outwardly. Once you engage them, they can no longer hide their personalities from you and you can see the incompatablility, and vice versa.

For example... Take KTM, from first glance you'd think that she's a cast iron wench who'd step over you to get what she wanted, but on the inside she's in reality too much of a softie to not help anyone out in a time of need.

PinTA on the other hand... well she looks all sweet and sugary on the outside, but... :ewink:

10/23/2006 8:46 AM  
Blogger trinamick said...

Hey now! Don't be using my name in vain! I'm evil, and that's all there is to it. And NYP is going to beat you for that, and I intend to laugh evilly.

I agree that there is a difference between attractive and lovely, though I don't use either term to describe guys. :P I know beautiful women that you can just tell have no substance, but there are plain or unattractive people who always seem lovely because of who they are.

One of my bestest friends looks like a dark-haired version of the kid on MAD magazine. But he's smart and hilarious and fun, so he's got all the chicks chasing him within minutes of meeting him.

10/23/2006 11:05 AM  
Blogger LL said...

Evil? Oh brother...

Do we have to test your evilness again?

"One of my bestest friends looks like a dark-haired version of the kid on MAD magazine."

Hmmm... I didn't think you'd seen my picture, but I guess if you want to consider me one of your bestest friends, well then... :P

10/23/2006 1:06 PM  
Blogger Beth said...

Well, what was the number?!? What IS the number?!?

10/24/2006 11:12 AM  
Blogger LL said...

Sorry my dear... some things I must keep to myself. :ewink:

10/24/2006 4:50 PM  
Blogger NYPinTA said...

But what??

10/25/2006 8:57 AM  
Blogger Beth said...

Well, if you find 4's interesting, it can't be attractive as well. I'm more like an anal lab rat. Haha. How not fair not to know this bit of information. Tease!

I so agree about Trinamick. She does seem hard on the outside, but someone who would be completely loyal to friends and family.

I'm laughing over nypinta. Uh oh.

10/25/2006 10:20 AM  
Blogger Kathleen said...

Did you actually spend $40 for a report on your name?

10/25/2006 10:45 AM  
Blogger LL said...

"But what??"

:rolleyes: If you have to ask... :P


I have no idea what you're talking about. :innocent:

"I so agree about Trinamick. She does seem hard on the outside, but someone who would be completely loyal to friends and family."

...and strangers, and passersby, and...

She's a lot like a roasted marshmallow, isn't she.

Kath: No. I didn't spend $40 on a name report. I ponied up for the whole freakin' class! They had a special on at the time and the name report, name recommendation, and course were all offered at the same time for just the cost of the training course. Since then, they've raised their prices. By quite a little bit...

10/25/2006 11:16 AM  
Blogger trinamick said...

I don't need to spend $40 to know what my name means. Death! Destruction! Mayhem! Incompetence within FEMA!

See? Evil. And roasted marshmallows burn the mouth. That's evil too.

10/25/2006 1:01 PM  
Blogger fermicat said...


My cat wrote the above comment. She's only semi-literate. Her name is Zima, if you want to do the numbers thing and decide if you like her.

Mom says my middle name means "God's gracious gift." What number would that correspond to?

10/25/2006 4:48 PM  
Blogger LL said...

Puh-lease KTM. Even when you try to be evil, it comes out in a nice way.

Sorry fermi... middle names usually don't have any impact on your personality. Unless of course that's the name you go by.

10/25/2006 11:11 PM  
Blogger Kathleen said...

So, you can figure out my number? Is it like numerology? An ex-boyfriend's mother did numerology but if I remember correctly it was related to the month of the year as well.

10/26/2006 8:06 AM  
Blogger LL said...

Yeah... it's kinda like numerology, but quite a bit different. When I first got into it, they had a big thing about how the KP was different from numerology. Now... well... they basically just say it's numerology on steroids. Hit the website, that'll answer a lot of your questions.

*psst* If you really want to know, the name Kathleen would be a 2-2=4. That's a 2 destiny number with a 4 expression number. Now that means you really want to be a 2, but you express it as a 4, which is limiting, and drags you into technical and detail oriented work/things. But... your last name, birthdate, nicknames, even to some extent your business signature... they all have an effect on your personality, and it becomes very complex.

In the context of my little post though, you would be a 2.

10/26/2006 7:08 PM  
Blogger Kathleen said...

Great! I'm a 2 who wants to be a 4...that's just like me. ;-)

11/08/2006 10:26 AM  

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